2 is a party…3 is a crowd! Can a person be in a relationship and still be strictly friends with another person they’re attracted to?

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by: Dominique Wilson

Sometimes as you’re going through the motions of everyday life, life actually has a funny way of coming in and throwing you a curve ball. What if you’re in a relationship with someone that you don’t necessarily love and one day you meet another person that you have a strong attraction and connection to mentally, physically and emotionally? Would you just walk away from the relationship you’re already in even though it’s been a comfortable situation for the past few years? Or would you respect your current mate by staying and making the other person you just met strictly a friend? The problem is, if you make the other person strictly a friend, eventually if you keep spending time with this other individual feelings will get deeper and the relationship will gradually become more than friends. And if you leave your current situation, how do you know it would work out? Life is very uncertain and unpredictable and sometimes you have to just take a leap of faith and step outside of your comfort zone. What would you do?

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3 thoughts on “2 is a party…3 is a crowd! Can a person be in a relationship and still be strictly friends with another person they’re attracted to?

  1. Well I feel if its that ez for u to have interest in #2, then its too late for #1.. the loyalty is gone, trust is broken and by you even considering someone else means youre unhappy with #1. So at some point you have to ask urself is #2 worth me leaving #1? Weigh ur pros and cons

    • Thanks for your comment! I totally agree, if number 2 is even a consideration number 1 has already lost the battle and war. Simply because even if it does not work out with that particular second person you’ve met, there will always be another & another & another #2 because you’re not satisfied with number #1.

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